Attract Men Tips
Want attract men tips? The idea that women enjoy the company of jerks or players comes from the misinterpretation of another technique, that being the "push and pull" dynamic. This technique toys with a person's curiosity by pulling them in and pushing them out. It provokes attention therefore creating a strong attraction, a desire to know that mysterious person. Sure, a woman may prefer a jerk to a nice guy - if the jerk has interesting conversation, if he has a unique perspective and if he creates fun conflict in conversation. The nice guy may be so nervous or so fawning over his date that he actually forgets to be interesting. This lesson applies to both men and woman. One could exercise the push and pull technique by:
- Being Unique (purposely doing this opposite of what most other guys/girls do)
- Laughing it Up (funny, not afraid to crack a few jokes or even tease his date)
- Showing Mystery (never answers questions directly, makes other person think)
- Giving Hot and Cold Reactions (increasing romantic attention and then ceasing)
- Creating Conflict (good natured conflict, friendly arguing)
- Poking the Ego (withholding the romantic attention the other expects or calling attention to a flaw; seems to work for over-confident prospects)
- Taking Rejection Well (take a person's rejection and shape it into their own character flaw; example: "So you're afraid to date smart guys?")
When you think of words like "seduction" you tend to think of a Hollywood blockbuster movie. Indeed, it does seem as the characters we see on screen are always so interesting, so seductive, so intelligent and so much fun to flirt with. One way to improve your own dating personality would be to borrow some of their creativity. Does your conversation sound like a screenplay? Do you establish yourself as a strong character and do you give your would-be partner enough material to work with, so that she can complement your approach with her own wit? It may not sound like real life, but it sure is romantic!
Seduction is a word that is often mistakenly used. All it really means is that you are trying to influence your dating prospect to give you more attention. Men and women use seduction techniques all the time, whether they know it or not. (Some just have a frighteningly complex understanding of these techniques)
