Men's Guide To Flirting: Types of Flirting
One thing many guys don't remember is that there are some ground rules for flirting. Once you know and understand these, you'll have an easier time with women.
The first thing you need to know is the different types of flirting, and how they correlate with WHOM you are flirting with.
Fun, harmless flirting can be done with almost any girl. Just exercise a degree of caution when doing it. This is mainly banter, and glances.
In this case, it's also important to see the difference between friendly behavior and sexual flirting. Men are more likely to do this, as women supposedly have a 'diplomacy' gene that allows them to sense things in the interaction that men will miss. What is definitely stacked against us is that we see the world in more sexual terms than women.
Overall, it's best to step back for a moment when it's going on to determine what is really happening.
After that, you'll get into flirting with the purpose of picking up. This is more deliberate and you'll need to understand some rules for this type of encounter.
A very basic trick to learn is to flirt with someone who shares your level of attractiveness, until you get some hours of approaching down. Now, that probably creates a few questions in your mind. How attractive are you? It's beyond the scope of this article, so that one I'll answer later.
The best part of it is, attractiveness is not something set in stone. You can become more attractive if you aren't already so. And it's not all about looks. Check my website for more ways to become irresistably attractive.
Another great bit of info is that MANY women misjudge their level of attractiveness. Some extraordinary looking ladies have terrible body images. Others think they are special while suffering from mediocrity. So approach regardless; you can bypass this first rule easily.
You can easily become more attractive, so no one should be "off limits". Don't be put off by turn downs and the idea of attracting a less beautiful woman. These small victories are great for confidence.
The second trick is to avoid flirting with someone who isn't going to return your interest. Now, this can be confusing. I recommend that you present yourself as best as possible: be well dressed, well mannered, and well versed in flirting. Take good care of yourself. This will tips the odds in your favor.
Now, understand a simple, basic concept that is obvious if you think about it. Women have their ideals which become more and more apparent as they age. They are looking for men who can provide for them or offer a rise in their status. Men, like you and I, prefer youth and attractiveness.
Simple stuff, but it seems rather restricting. Are you wealthy, or famous? Do you "do well"? This doesn't mean you can't find a "10", it just means you need to work harder to get one. Confidence and charm go a LONG way in helping with this. There are more ideas on this at my site.
It goes without saying, for best results, avoid married women, someone who is obviously with someone else, or someone who can change your life in a negative manner (your boss, for instance).
In my next article I'll get into how to flirt. It's even more important than the who and the types of flirting.
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