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Approaching men may seem like some hard work, especially when you're a woman.

Approaching men may seem like some hard work, especially when you're a woman. It would tale some guys and a good amount of confidence to actually approach a guy you like especially if you're strangers to each other. But this isn't really a bad news --- there are many women out there who took the risk, took matters into their hands and actually got successful because they followed their gut feeling and actually approached a guy. It's going to be once in a million, babe --- you better grab it. Knowing how to approach men is a skill, so here are the first five steps to be on confident hot babe. Get him now!

• Smile and make eye contact with him first. It's important you make initial contact with him first. It's more likely to be ugly if you just stroll over and sit beside him and all that --- that could scare him off a little. So make eye contact from across the room, smile, grin --- make him see that you're interested.


• Flirt and send mixed signals. Sending him flirting signals is like marking your territory. It means you want his attention, his focus. You need to learn how to read his body language as well. If it's making him a little uncomfortable, stop for a while. If he's enjoying, keep it going. Be sensitive.


• Mouth something to him. It can be just a simple hi or hello or something longer --- just mouth something to him. He might take the initiative and stroll over to you instead. Or if he can't seem to read your lips, that's your cue to approach him. Make it clever.


• Stride over confidently. Getting all shy while approaching a guy is a big no-no. He might think it's some kind of a bad joke or something. Make sure you stride over with confidence and poise. He will be alert and be more interested and intrigued by you if you do. Think that you're on hot babe with oozing sex appeal --- that will help you stand straighter.


• Ask him an interesting question. Now that you're beside him, it's time to ask him a question. There are about a million lame questions to ruin the mood so avoid it at all costs. Make it sound like you're expecting and intelligent answer and have that "Impress me," tone in your voice. He'll definitely try to sweep you off your feet if you do.

It sure does sound a little bit scary and nerve-wrecking and all that but believe me, it's actually easier than it sounds. Work on that confidence and everything else with run smoothly. Knowing how to